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You did what?
Yup, I quit the best job I’ve ever had. For one of the best agencies in Grand Rapids. My last day as an official employee of ddm will be October 15, next Friday. And no I did not quit with a whiteboard and a mass email like Jenny ;)
Why did you quit?
I have heard a lot of people give lip service to having their family as a priority. I have been watching myself fall into the same trap, saying I value my family and time with them over work, while at the same time I was spending every moment possible working. I have encountered a fork in the road of my career where I could choose to continue to sacrifice my family time and attain a really successful career in the marketing agency I work for, or choose my family over a successful career. I have made my choice. I challenge you to make yours consciously versus unconsciously.
So now what? Unemployment?
Well not really, I’m going freelance, doing the same work I’ve done before just on a more focused client list with fewer obligations and less overhead.
What about ddm and their clients?
Until ddm hires a replacement I’ll be on contract for them to ensure their client commitments are kept.
Do you really think you will work less?
Most people I’ve talked to about this suggest that I will work harder, and more. However I believe that its about making a choice, I choose to quit my job to spend more time with my family, not to make more money. If I work the system right I will get to do that, if not I’ll have failed. Either way I need to figure this out, give it a try and find out if I can actually spend more time with Becky and the kiddos.
Put it this way, the status quo of working at an agency was not going to get me more time with my family. Working freelance might not either. But there is a chance it might. In my opinion, these little faces are worth the risk.
What do you do anyway?
I go by many titles, and do lots of jobs, but it all falls under the arena of online marketing. I ask businesses a basic question: What are your online presences doing for your bottom line? Then I help ensure the answer to that question is a positive answer.
In reality I do:
- Search – Both SEO and paid placement (PPC). I get targeted prospects to your website
- Social – Who has time for it? How does it apply in a B2B market? – I answer those and assist clients in managing their social presences
- Segment – Some think of it as Google Analytics, but it’s more than that, I dive deep into user behavior, and produce actionable changes a business needs to take in their online presences.
- Email Marketing – managing lists, managing campaigns, working through conversion metrics and the like.
- Conversion Optimization – Does your website have a call to action? Is it obvious to viewers what you want them to do? I help you make the Call to Action obvious.
Are you going to start an agency?
I just quit an agency where I was given a lot of leeway and leverage to build a successful online marketing department. I have no desire to build an entire agency, nor do I want to compete at that level.
That said, if you were to ask me two years ago if I’d be working at ddm in 2012 I would have said yes. I leave the future to God’s plan, all I know is the next step. I’m taking this step in faith. If I am blessed with too much work, I’ll have to cross that bridge when I get there. I have ideas and ‘plans’ in case that happens, but we’ll figure out what to do when that occurs.
Honestly, my goal is to get out of the trading hours for dollars business (aka the service sector). I don’t have a way to do that yet, but when I do I’ll let you know about it. Until then I’ll be assisting clients in a more focused manner than I was able to do before.
Who influenced you in this move?
There are a lot of influencers in this decision, some know their role, some don’t. Some are larger than life, like Gary Vaynerchuk, others are not so large, like my Amish friends. There have been many great conversations which have lead to this. Becky and I have been praying and working through this for about a year which has given opportunity for some fun conversations.
Wait, you have Amish friends?
Ah, young grasshopper you have much to learn.
Got any questions I didn’t predict? give a shout out in the comments and I’ll be sure to answer them for you.




I applaud you on your decision. I made the same decision in April. I was working four different time zones and always tired. Now I only work 32 hours a week and have more time with my family.
Have you heard of Trada? http://trada.com/ I have heard they hire SEO’s and that you can work part time as well.
Good luck!!
(@namtrok)
Kevin, thanks for the tip, I’ll look into that for sure! And thanks for the encouragement through telling your story. There aren’t enough of these stories in the public space.
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(@blodger)
Paul has been an amazing asset and valued team member while at ddm. We’re pleased to have reached a win-win solution to support both Paul’s goal to spend more time with Becky and their children while continuing the fantastic support he’s provided ddm clients online. Paul used the word “replacement” in his blog. That’s not possible. Everyone we hire brings their own special skills, talents and passions to our teams. They will be different – they won’t be Paul. We wish Paul all the best in his pursuits and we’re glad to know he’ll still be available as a contractor and valued team member going forward.
(@namtrok)
Thanks Mark… Should we hug now?
And for others reading this and wondering about ddm, I honestly have left the best job ever, ddm is a fantastic agency and I wouldn’t be here without their support.
hope to still see you around at events and such! will keep trying to get Gary out of the office….
(@namtrok)
You will still see me around, I might actually be at more events than before!
With our powers combined we’ll get him to network after all :)
Paul, I’ll be replying to your email soon.
Keep in mind: elance, sologig, simplyhired, etc, etc, etc
(@namtrok)
Thanks Brad! – you know I will be/am already on those. Digital tools rock!
(@Ljpalma)
Congrats on your brave bold choice. Your family wins! Going to miss you at ddm.
Congrats to you, Paul! It’s a gutsy move, yet I totally agree with your perspective. Putting family first is what’s kept me centered, and it’s good to remember that now and again. Best wishes on your future endeavors, and let us know if we can help!
-Melissa aka Mel66
(@namtrok)
Thanks Laura, it is bold and scary, but if successful, it’ll be worth it!
Melissa, I’l be sure to reach out if help is needed! I hope that you get to keep that focus and remain centered.
Wow Paul!
I applaud your stepping out in faith! It’s a gutsy thing to do!
I recently shared a status update on FB that essentially said “I am at peace with my gifts, passion, and station. God will take care of the rest”. It only took me about 20 years to arrive at that place! ;-D
I have no doubt that your faithfulness will be rewarded, and I’m NOT talking about money!
Brian
(@namtrok)
Brian, so true, and thank you sir!
Paul,
I wish you the best of luck, and will send some prayers your way.
Now if this is really like Jenny and just a media punk… http://thechive.com/2010/08/11/a-word-from-jenny-16-photos/ … :-(
(@namtrok)
Doug,
While it would be like me to pull a (fake) stunt like that, this story is true. Besides.. if it weren’t wouldn’t I have some better pictures?
Congrats. That is an extremely cool that you are doing this. Hopefully you will keep us abreast on the transition as well, so the rest of us can see if this might a possibility some day down the road. Best of luck.
Paul –
I just wanted to wish you the best in your new endeavor. I admire you (have since we met) and look forward to seeing what you’ll accomplish next!
(@namtrok)
Mark, stay in touch as I hope to inspire more quitters :) Actually I’ll be sure to post updates here as to the progress. There have been many who have gone before, most for different reasons. I hope to elevate the family reason.
Cindy, I’m humbled by your view of me. I hope to continue to earn that respect. I feel like I’m part of the Fellowship of the Ring, as we’re setting out on an epic adventure. Lets hope there are fewer battle scenes in this adventure. :)
Choosing to travel a road less traveled takes a strong will of character that I have noticed few posses andI admire you decision.
From the few months I worked with you I know you have what it takes. Your were a great mentor.
I would wish you luck but you do not need it.
Congratulations to you and to your family.
(@namtrok)
Thanks Adam!
I’m not Amish! Oh, you weren’t talking about me? Congratulations, Paul, on making what was probably a pretty tough decision. I applaud you for your example to others who might want to do the same thing, but haven’t had a good example to follow.
All the best to you and your family,
Mike
(@namtrok)
Thanks Yoder, and I was 100% basing that off of your name. You do make cheese right?
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(@ThomasDalebring)
Hej Paul,
I just found you through a google search for drupal vs. wordpress (filtering last month as criteria). I just have to say that I believe you have made a great choice. I walked into the wall 25 years old and realised early what too much work can do to us…
Looking forward to follow you and see where you end up.
Take care of yourself and your family.
I too applaud your move – been there, done that. Back in 1990, I worked at U.M. for several years making 6 figures a year and almost lost my sanity.
Decided to become Mr. mom for 4 years before heading over to the online marketing world. Haven’t looked back since. Raised my 3 wonderful kids, now young adults, and made sure the house was safe :-)
It works if you work it.
Juan – Miami, Fl
(@lukerumley)
Everybody is soooo supportive! Is it ok if I just watch and see how it works for you? ;)
I love the reasoning behind your decision and with your network, I have no doubt you will succeed in supporting your family. I was one of the naysayers that thinks you’ll end up working more, but those faces are worth the risk and I would love to be proven wrong!
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