I’m the co-founder of ThingShare, a peer to peer rental system where anyone can participate in the sharing economy by listing your things and then renting them out to strangers. It’s a form of Collaborative Consumption currently focused on the video gaming industry.

Since ThingShare is a new business which needs scale to succeed we’ve gone the route of pursuing funding for our idea. Part of that journey might take us to an accelerator. We’ve applied to a bunch and are still applying to more accelerators. TechStars is the biggest accelerator we’ve applied to and the one that we’d benefit the most from.

In preparation for applying to TechStars I did my research, and figured out that while some funds/accelerators give priority to the business model/idea, TechStars puts a large emphasis on the team. Essentially they believe in raising/supporting great entrepreneurs no matter what the current idea/business is that they’re working on.

We’ve applied to both Boston and now NYC TechStars. But I’ve learned something in the 4 weeks in-between each application. The lesson I learned came from the movie 21.

Lessons learned from “21″

In the [based on true facts] movie the main character Ben had denied himself the pleasures of this world to seek after one goal, getting into Harvard Medical, the only thing in Ben’s way is finances. He has all the perfect scores, has everything lined up, and even is accepted into Harvard Med, and now he’s competing in a full ride scholarship. The professor explains to him that Ben’s life and in turn Ben himself is boring. In Ben’s final essay he needs to “Jump off the page” and the professor needs to be dazzled.

Dazzling TechStars

Like Ben needed to explain to the professor why he was impressive, I needed to explain to TechStars how I and my teammate are incredible  It’s like filling out a form on a dating website and needing to sound attractive, rich, etc. You shouldn’t lie. But you need to sexy up the stories a bit.

So what do I have that is impressive? What would make an indivitual going through hundreds or thousands of applications see our application and say, “Wow I want to meet these guys!” or “Holy cow, Bob did you read this application?” In short, How do I Jump off the page, or how do I dazzle the TechStars team?

The Basics

On the surface these details don’t make me jump off the page, but they should.

• I’m from the midwest
  • I’m outside the Valley Echo, and I have the midwestern work ethic.
• I live in the woods, 40 miles away from the nearest city and that city isn’t very large either.
  • While city life provides connections, life in the country is significantly more healthy – and I raise as much of my own food as possible
• I went to a small unheard of college, got a degree in youth ministry
  • All the successes I’ve had in IT/Business have come from bootstrapping and being self taught.
• I have a wife and four kids
  • While some assume that makes me tied down and less fundable, having a family makes me connected with our target audience
• I’ve worked for various small and medium businesses that TechStars has never heard of, and do not directly apply to ThingShare
  • I know how to run small teams well and to work hard with nothing given to me.
• I’m 32, that’s 4 years older than Mark Zuckerberg
  • LinkedIn found that 40% of founders are in their 30′s, and 65% are 30 or older at their first startup.
• We convinced a billionaire to invest $25,000 in ThingShare
  • While that seems low, everyone has to start somewhere, and a $25k convertible note is a form of validation.

But I’m not bitter, I’m just trying to show you how on the surface I don’t dazzle, I’m not the Stanford educated former Google employee who is connected to every VC in the valley, instead I’m  an average hard working midwesterner dad/husband who is pitbull-like in my pursuit of an idea that I get behind.

But let me try it again, what follows are the parts of my story that do jump off the page. And are all true.

Jumping off of the Page

In this list I am not trying to brag or promote myself, but I put it here to let you be the judge. The ultimate question is at the end of the the list.

• I traveled around the world when I was 13, without my parents or family.
• I hand wrote html in vi on a Sun UNIX box in 1994 (aka started “coding” at age 14)
• An insurance company gave me $5,000 for a car that wouldn’t run.
• My wife and I were deported from Kazakhstan, and we returned a week later.
• As an english-only speaker I taught algebra to a woman who only spoke korean.
• I walked away from an incredible job to pursue the Startup world two years ago.
• I’ve sung in a funeral processional for a South African AIDS victim, in South Africa.
• I built a training application… in Microsoft Access, prior to Visual Basic.
• I turned a 2 week temporary job into a 9 month long engagement which I then left.
• My wife and I delivered our son at home. Alone. Unassisted. Unplanned.
• I built a Facebook page fan base of 60k in 2008.
• I’ve built a digital marketing agency that has billed a quarter million. Annually. Every Year.
• I chose to parent another man’s child cause he wasn’t willing to do it.

So, did I dazzle you? Did I Jump off of the Page?